Today’s money hack is about differentiating between needs and wants in an effort to follow a frugal lifestyle.

We know money is important not only for survival but also for living a fulfilling life, and to completely abandon the idea of gathering wealth in an effort to be frugal, is a bit naïve. As we explained in our last article, frugality teaches us to spend carefully money and ignore social standards of success and happiness (among other frugal ideas), but during our quest for wealth, it’s vital to know when motives are fueled by greed or opulence instead of necessity and peace of mind.

Difference between needs and wants, avoid lifestyle inflation, how to stay debt free

In today’s world, many consideration monetary wealth and physical assets a sign of social respect, and that’s a pity because it encourages people to stay in the rat race and live a life they cannot afford without debt. As soon as a salary raise in granted at work, the money is spent on ‘new needs’ that materialize somewhat suddenly. This makes it difficult to save money over the years for retirement or for repayment of debt and one feels they are perpetually stuck in a state of financial insufficiency (which is the definition of lifestyle inflation).

At the end of the day, you may never be financially independent because your savings are not increasing as they should to guarantee a stress-free financial life.

Differentiating needs and wants to avoid lifestyle inflation

To avoid lifestyle inflation, one must differentiate between needs and wants. A simple definition from any book on economics will tell you:

  • Needs are items necessary for survival, i.e. food, shelter, clothes, health, etc. You cannot live without purchasing these items,
  • Wants are items you desire to possess but you can do without them for the sake of survival, such as technology gadgets, branded items, expensive cars, luxury items, etc.

The line between needs and wants is often blurred. Someone’s ‘want’ may be another person’s ‘need’ and vice versa. The criterion is different for everyone, I admit, but what works for me is to ask myself if I really need to make a purchase or if I can live without it. While making this decision, I tend to think about the less fortunate folks living in third world countries and war zones and the difference between needs and wants become strikingly clear!

But what if you can afford a product or service that falls into the ‘want’ category, without taking out a loan that you spend your life trying to pay back? What if affordance is not an issue? Surely, it must be frugally acceptable to buy anything you want if you are financially secure, right? Well, it’s pretty simple:

  • Frugality advises that all purchases are made for personal convenience and not for the sake of show-off or opulence. Materialism is only a curse if it goes into excess and more often than not, the more you have, the more you waste.
  • Whatever you choose to buy, try to maximize the value derived from the money you pay, i.e. your shopping mantra should be ‘value for money’.

So define your principles and make sure you don’t cross the line to the other side of wasteful indulgence and opulence which often leads to debt and a lifestyle that you cannot afford.

Related: Helping your children develop good financial skills.